Posts Tagged ‘Be Happy’

Happy 13th, Son

Son is 13 today. How time flies! During Son’s first few months we thought he was deaf; we would shout his name and clap but his face would remain dead-pan, then one day he started laughing and we realised he had just been cocking a deaf ‘un. Once he started talking, he put the letter ‘b’ at the beginning of every word and used words like ‘bitch’, ‘bastard’ and ‘bollocks’ liberally – concerned, I googled, ‘What age does Tourettes start?’ and was relieved that it was not in infancy. Son was the friendliest little kid, wherever he went people would know his name by the time he left. By the end of primary school he had lost a lot of his confidence, as the system ground him down. He’s not a school person but secondary is definitely an improvement. He is an excellent musician, he plays piano, guitar, bass and drums and also composes beautiful piano pieces and edgy guitar riffs. During his primary years he would hide himself behind a fat kid or place himself halfway out the door – in next month’s school production he will be forced front of stage to do a guitar solo – my birthday wish for my son is to have the confidence and enthusiasm to do the things he loves and to let his light shine because he’s shinier than he knows.


Miserably Happy

It is now week three into 2014 and I have barely done a scrap of work since before Christmas. Historically I know it’s nothing to worry about and when things start moving again I’ll be tied to my desk (and will most probably be complaining about it). So I’m consciously trying not to worry and to be happy for the time I’ve got to myself and making use of it; not just sitting around but going out with friends and walking a lot and all the while reminding myself to be happy no matter what, keeping my vibe high and affirming positivite thoughts – why is it so difficult!?

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“The road ahead is smooth, why throw obstacles before you?”

If it is true that you only live once then why not do the things that make you happy? I like smoking weed, it makes me happy. If I did not like it then I would cease to do it but why suffer with addictions; why not just enjoy it? I asked my friend, who not only suffers with MS but also suffers with multiple addictions, all of which he is in recovery for and is thoroughly miserable about! Another friend of mine just wants to sit down and drink her bottles of wine without being branded an alcoholic by her family, ‘Why can’t we sit down and enjoy a drink? …  Why can’t I drink a bottle of wine while I’m making dinner?’, she said – at nearly 70 years old there’s no good reason that I can see. We are all going to die one day, so let’s enjoy our choices and embrace our addictions if it makes us happy and live ’til we die.

“Taking a ride to nowhere, please step inside”

Empty Chair

Whilst sunning myself in the garden yesterday with a stack of Red magazines (kindly provided by Maureen) I came across an article called  the ‘Empty Chair Technique’ –  they were saying that instead of keeping your anger and frustrations inside, to voice it instead but not to the actual person whose pissed you off, just to an empty chair – a bit like writing a letter to someone and never sending it. (I don’t see the point personally.) As Honey was ranting in my ear endlessly, I read him the article and I suggested that instead of ranting on at me, he could rant to the empty chair, ‘But that’s exactly what I’m doing, I am talking to an empty chair.’ Oh … I’ve always thought I was brick wall…

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